I hosted a sleepover birthday party for my oldest daughter per her request. I wanted the group to be small, but it was difficult as kids tend to belong to clicks and if you invite just one or two from a group, that would cause some issues. My rule for picking guests was that my daughter had to have some kind of interaction with the friends outside of school by being invited to their birthday parties or play date at their places, etc. Otherwise, the list gets too long. There were a few kids I wish I could invite because I know the moms, but I had to draw a line because I already had 12 girls on the list who confirmed that they could come. I hate this aspect of organizing a party. I just hate to hear if someone’s feelings got hurt by not being included. It gets too hard to manage if you have too many kids when you host it at your place. It gets very expensive as well. I wish I could invite as many as possible so that I don’t have to worry about any hurt feelings!
The sleepover party was a lot of labor for me in some sense, but it did not feel as difficult as I thought that it would be. I personally think that having a sleepover birthday party for a 10-year-old is easier than having a day-time party for a 6-year-old just because younger kids require so many more activities for their attention span being so short. It was fun and easy to do activities with 9-year-olds. It was definitely worth the efforts to host a sleepover party for my daughter because she was very appreciative of my efforts and also it was sweet to see her get so excited to be with her friends.
☆ I recommend you put straws in the cups close to the time when guests will drink if the straws are made of paper like the ones I had. These stripe straws were paper straws, so I added them shortly before the Curaçao Blue Soda was offered to the kids. Thus, the earlier photos did not have the straws in.
I found the cute stripe paper straws at Cheap Jack on Hill Road, which is above Something Special (see information below). I saw the adorable stripe straws at Cheap Jack once, then I never did again. When you see something you like in Mumbai, grab them then. Otherwise, you might not be able to find them again.
HOW TO HAVE AN EASY SLEEPOVER PARTY FOR GIRLS
KEY FACTORS
1. Party on Friday to Saturday instead of Saturday to Sunday.
Why? Many kids have Saturday morning activities. Thus, you can convince kids go to bed at the time you would like them to go to bed. On Saturday morning many kids were picked up early by their parents to go to Saturday activities. It was easy for the kids to leave and it was easy for me as well.
2. Ask kids to bring their own sleeping bags
Tidying up in the morning is made easier.
3. Guests were 9 and 10 years old. They are mature enough to do so much by themselves.
TIME TABLE
6:00 Party begins: Photo Booth with Props
6:30 Dinner
7:00 Manicure Pedicure & Hair Makeover
7:30 PJ Fashion Show
8:00 Cake, Dessert & Play
8:30 Cleanup & Make bed with sleeping bags
8:45 Brushing Teeth
9:15 Movie Starts
10:45 Movie Finished
11:00 Lights Off
PREPARATION
1 MONTH BEFORE
Shop for party decoration, party props, plates, cups, silverware, etc.
2-3 WEEKS BEFORE
Send invitations to friends
1 WEEK BEFORE
Decorate your home
Place an order for cakes & cookies if needed (I ordered from TH Bakes)
Buy Party Favors
3 DAYS BEFORE
Pack party favors
1 DAY BEFORE
Buy desserts, bake (I didn’t…)
DAY OF THE PARTY
1. Prepare a table and place plates in the morning after breakfast. Put sticky tabs with items you’ll serve on them.
2. Buy doughnuts for breakfast for the following morning. I recommend doughnuts over pancakes or waffles because they are more manageable. Seeing how kids were the night before, I could imagine that kids would make our home very sticky if I served maple syrup. Plus, maple syrup in India is a hard-to-get commodity in India.
DINNER
I ordered simple cheese pizzas (better as there are vegetarians) to make it easy. I also served home-made chicken fingers & broccolis which were popular.
HELP
I hired one teenager girl to help me with manicure pedicure, which was a big help! She was also a judge for a pj fashion show. There were things that a teenager could say and was received better than if it was coming from me, a mom of a birthday girl. I was glad to have her. The girls were also able to help each other to do their hair and manicure pedicure which was a huge help!
PHOTO BOOTH PROPS
Oversized glasses, sunglasses, mustaches, lips & mustaches on sticks, hats, wigs, boas, belts, frames
SHOPPING INFORMATION FOR MUMBAI RESIDENTS
Please click on the links below for more information.
Frame Shopping in Mumbaid ☆ My recommendations on frame shops on SV Road
Empire Paint Center ☆ My recommendation on paint shop
Mota’s Party Shop
61, Hill Road (Bandra west), Mumbai 400050, Mahārāshtra, India
It is a couple of shops down from Something Special, a craft shop on Hill Road.
Something Special
63, Hill Road, Bandra (W), Hill Rd, Ranwar, Bandra West, Mumbai, Maharashtra 400050
*Opposite St. Joseph Convent High School
PHONE: 022 2642 2526
*They close for lunch break between 2:00 and 3:00. (Please check the hours with the store.)
Monday – Saturday Sunday is closed.
Cheap Jack
63, HILL ROAD, 1st FLOOR, BEFORE ST.PETER CHURCH, BANDRA WEST
Mumbai, MH 400050
PHONE: 022 2640 9367
The mugs were from The White Window.
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Tasha says
Oh this looks so sweet! Absolutely love the birthday party colours 🙂
Kaho says
Thank you, Tasha! I love these tones of blue!
shintadaniel says
You’re so creative Kaho. The table decoration is simple but also elegant and neat. I love the color, it’s so fresh..
Kaho says
Thanks for the compliment! I think I should’ve put more sweets on the table because they were gone in 5 minutes! It’s one of my favorite colors, too!
charmi says
12 girls !! Wow your patience and tolerance levels seem really high! I cannot imagine their volume level, especially when they are all excited! You are a brave lady:-), but I do love the color theme and it’s my almost 9 year old’s favorite too. Might do something similar for her birthday party too! Thanks for the ideas, had to pin them so I dont forget about it.
Kaho says
Charmi, thank you so much for your comment! I hope I have high tolerance! When I deal with my own kids, I feel like I don’t. I was worried about bothering my neighbors! I’m lucky I live in a country where people do have a high tolerance for noise! Please do take any ideas! Thank you for pinning! You rock!
Jodi says
Wow that party is amazing. It looks gorgeous and I bet all the girls had a blast
xx, Jodi
http://highheelsandtutus.com
Kaho says
Thank you, Jodi, for the compliment! My daughter thanked me and looked very happy, so I think she did. I was happy!
Marie says
You did an AMAZING job Kaho, well done! I share your feelings about the list of guests, I am always facing the same problem and end up inviting the whole class so no one gets hurt. Luckily last year only 12 or 14 girls could make it (they were 22 in class!)
The next theme chosen by my daughter is a disco party, which I think is so much fun. I only wish I could hire a place though!
Kaho says
Thank you so much, Marie!! It means a lot coming from you! Isn’t it so hard? I find it a bit tiring… Disco theme sounds so fun!! I can’t wait to see how you will decorate the space for the theme!!
Juliet says
Hey kaho good deco, just wanted to know where could I get the mason jars you’ve used, in mumbai/bandra/wherever Thankyouu.
Kaho says
I found them at Amazon in the U.S. In India, this is what I found. http://www.amazon.in/Dress-My-Cupcake-12-Pack-Vintage/dp/B00EISA15Y/ref=sr_1_16/279-2497686-7703645?s=kitchen&ie=UTF8&qid=1422629598&sr=1-16&keywords=mason+jars
I hope this is helpful!